I was raised in a household where the girls were expected to
get married and have babies, and the boys expected to go to college. Higher education
was never on my radar.
Working minimum wage jobs flipping burgers in high school provided
pocket money but never enough income to survive. Since I’ve always been a fast typist, I worked
for a while out of high school as a keypunch operator - a job that soon went
extinct as computers evolved.
Secretarial work suited me fine, was a bit more glamorous
and paid better. Then one day, my boss gave me a task to do and I quickly
realized there was a better way to do it, so I respectfully explained to him my
great idea. He looked at me in a very unpleasing manner and responded, “I don’t
pay you to think. I pay you to do what I
tell you to do!” I was crushed. I
realized then that my career as a secretary might also be short lived.
A college education was never an option, not only because it
cost money I didn’t have, but because I didn’t think I was smart enough to pull
it off. But then I heard about financial
aid and thought I’d give it a try. Jimmy
Carter was in the White House and lots of money was available. Because I’d been living independently for three
years and working minimal paying jobs, I qualified for every kind of aid
available. I quickly signed up for a
full load of classes at the local community college.
It was a bit nerve wracking to go back to school, but one of
my first days there a professor actually asked me what I thought about
something. I was shocked. The memory of my ex-boss telling me he didn’t
want to hear what I thought was still fresh in my mind. I got hooked on the concept
of “higher education” right away.
I poured myself into my studies and extra-curricular
activities and completed my A.A. degree in 16 months. I then was extremely
fortunate to be accepted at Pomona College in Claremont, California where more
than enough scholarships and financial aid paid for everything I needed, including
the gas to move there. I had no idea how hard school could be, but I was
motivated and made it through in two years and graduated right on
schedule. I was the first ever in my
immediate and extended family to get a college education.
After graduating debt free and making more money than I
could have ever dreamed possible, I made a promise to myself to somehow pay
back my free education. As much
indebtedness as I felt to Pomona for treating me so well financially, I did the
math and realized that a full tuition scholarship at Clatsop Community College
was equivalent, at that time, to paying for 11 days at Pomona. I figured my money was better served at a
smaller school, so it was there I set up my scholarship.
The WATEC scholarship - Waited Awhile To Enter College – was
so named because that’s what I had done.
I realized when a person works for a few years out of high school, they
see more clearly the value of higher education, and presumably, work harder at
it.
I’ve awarded a full tuition scholarship now each year for
more than 30 years, as I know all too well what a difference education can make
in a person’s life - whether they choose to get married and have babies, or
not.
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